Veteran Nollywood actress and evangelist, Eucharia Anunobi, is using her platform to talk about DM etiquette.
In an Instagram video, Anunobi passionately addressed what she believes is a frustrating and common pattern in how Nigerians initiate conversations in direct messages, especially on social media.
“I don’t get it. I really don’t get it. Why would you come to someone’s DM and write hi? Hello, Beauty. For crying out loud, you think we all have time to waste?”
With her signature poise and commanding tone, Anunobi expressed irritation over people who slide into her DMs with vague greetings and no clear direction. According to her, there’s no time for idle chatter in a world that moves so fast.
“Oh, so we should start chit-chatting. Hey, then I write hello, then you say ‘How are you?’ That’s fine. Come on, now. Man, shoot your shot, write your intentions, write where you’re going to, where you’re coming from, come on.”
For the actress, the issue isn’t just about politeness, it’s about being direct, intentional, and respectful of people’s time. Today, when everyone is busy chasing goals and managing multiple responsibilities, vague DM openers are simply not cutting it.
Her advice? If you’re reaching out to someone, especially a public figure, be clear and confident in your communication. Whether it’s for a business proposal, a compliment, a networking request, or even a romantic approach, clarity is key.
“Don’t you know what’s called grabbing your opportunity? Obviously, common sense is not common.”
Who is Eucharia Anunobi?
Eucharia Anunobi is a renowned Nollywood actress, producer, and ordained pastor. She gained prominence in the early 1990s with her role in the film Glamour Girls, where she portrayed Anita, a character that showcased her acting prowess and contributed to the film’s success .
Anunobi’s career spans over three decades, during which she has appeared in more than 90 films, including notable titles like Abuja Connection, Letters to a Stranger, and Foreigner’s God.
